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Monday, December 27, 2010

Is She trying to change you?

OK..here goes. Todays topic: Is she trying to change you?
Here's the scinerio: You're sitting there with your girl watching TV and she looks up at you with her big innocent eyes and says, " You know I love you right?" You're thinking "Oh Shit, what did I do now?" So you say "Yeah...Why?" Then she proceeds to tell you that she is just not compfortable with you ( going out with the guys, or looking at porn, or whatever her major malfunction is at the moment) and she thinks that if you love her you will stop doing it.
There are 2 ways to answer this:
1) The PUSSY way: " OK baby, I will stop if it really bothers you"  NOW YOU'RE Fucked ! You just gave her control for the rest of your relationship and you have to be miserable to make her happy. DUMBASS!
2) The MAN way: " Why is this a problem all of a sudden? Are you trying to change who I am? You seemed to like me just fine up untill now....."
(She will NOT expect this reply and may backtrack with "I'm not trying to change you...it's bothered me for a while but I didn't want to say anything" )
Your reply should be: " I don't try to change you . I am who I am and that's the way it is. If you aren't happy maybe you should decide what you want."
Hopefully she just backs off and leaves you alone...if not..STAND YOUR GROUND ! You are who you are...if that's not good enough for her then too fucking bad for her ! 
BE WHO YOU ARE GUYS! It makes you sexier and stronger to not be a PUSSY who gives into her every whim because it won't stop there...I guarentee it. Hugs ! Lil

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